Bethanyism #21

Happy Monday!!!

And Happy Memorial Day!

Today I'm spending out in the woods with my dog and my good friend, Timmy, in memory of a birthday that won't be celebrated today, but I have a new Bethanyism for you to ponder for the week.

For those new readers, you can read this post for the explanation on what a Bethanyism is. I post a new one every Monday with the hope that they will inspire, make you think or spark some creativity, either in myself or others.

life asked death, "Why do people love me but hate you?" death responded, "Because you are a beautiful lie and I am a painful truth."

Today would have been Matthew's 31st birthday, and with this milestone approaching I have been thinking a lot about life and death and the beauty of both.  

I don't necessarily see life as a lie. It's a possibility. It's a dream. It can be whatever you want it to be, make it whatever you decide you want it to be. It can be a lie, it can be perfect, it can be broken, it can be wasted, it can be fulfilling. 

But in the end, death is the painful truth. Everyone dies. It's concept that humans have been fighting since the beginning of time. We struggle to explain it to children, because even as adults, we struggle to explain it to ourselves. I honestly believe that only in death, can you know the truth. 

What do you think about this week's quote? 

Love it? 

Hate it? 

 

Bethanyism #20

Happy Monday!!! 

This week's Bethanyism makes me smile a little bit. Maybe it will make you smile, too!

For those new readers, you can read this post for the explanation on what a Bethanyism is. I post a new one every Monday with the hope that they will inspire, make you think or spark some creativity, either in myself or others.

"And though she be but little, she if fierce." - William Shakespeare

Having grown up with boys and being good friends with a large amount of guys, I've always been referred to as short or little, even though I'm really not. And most the time, I'm a calm, peaceful person. The problem is, that I have passion. When I get worked up about something, I'll argue for it. I'll fight for it. I get loud, and worked up, and I might even swear to get my point across. 

There are times in my life where I am fierce. 

I love those times. I love being about to be fierce, and passionate about something, whether it be about the people that I love, or an idea that I can stand behind. 

And I always do it with a smile. 

What do you think about this week's quote? 

Are you fierce? 

Bethanyism #19

Happy Monday!!!

I hope everyone had a great weekend! I know it was a busy one for me between work and other celebrations for friends and family. 

Here's your Bethanyism for the week!

For those new readers, you can read this post for the explanation on what a Bethanyism is. I post a new one every Monday with the hope that they will inspire, make you think or spark some creativity, either in myself or others.

"The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone suffer the way they do." - Anonymous

This week's quote is something that I always seem to struggle with. I never want to see another person suffer, and more importantly, I never want to be the cause or root of hurting another person. Until I found this quote, I had never taken the time to ponder why that is. 

In the wake of Matthew's death, (for those who don't know about Matthew, read on here.) I have talked to a few friends about "the hurt". Losing someone, hurts so much. Although sometimes the hurt is so big that it can't be felt all at once, but in smaller chunks. I am of the belief that hurt has to be felt, and dealt with so the healing can begin. It's a part of the grief process. 

I think it's because of these beliefs that I don't like to see people hurt. I like to help others when I can. All because I don't want to ever cause anyone to hurt the way that I do. 

What do you think about this week's quote? 

 

Bethanyism #18

Happy Monday! 

Can you believe it's May?! 

It's almost Mother's Day!

For those new readers, you can read this post for the explanation on what a Bethanyism is. I post a new one every Monday with the hope that they will inspire, make you think or spark some creativity, either in myself or others.

Every day I become a little bit more like my mother. And I couldn't be prouder!

Since this coming Sunday is Mother's Day, I couldn't resist posting this! 

 My Mom is amazing! I know a lot of people say that about their mom's but seriously, she really is. She's an oncology nurse and takes care of cancer patients, which she's been doing for over 30 years. She also runs a knitting support group for cancer patients. She has 6 crazy kids, 6 adorable grandkids and if you knew my Dad in real life, you'd just declare her a saint for putting up with him for 33 years.

In the last few years, I've noticed things that I do or say that I know came from my Mom. I personally think it's awesome. If I can be half as amazing as she is, then I think I'll turn out okay. 

Are you anything like your Mom?